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Cautionary Tales For Children
Wonderful witty poems great for reading to your children. The stories and rhymes will stay with them for the rest of their lives.


Research has shown how important YOU are to your children and how as a dad the things you do, and keep on doing, really count, whether you live with them, or you are a single dad and are only able see them once a month, once a week or more, what you do really matters. This site is dedicated to all dads but will be of special relevance to the single dad. Remember, you are half the reason your children exist and they need you whether you live with them or not. As their dad, you have what it takes to make their lives successful and fulfilling no matter how often you see them. This site is about all the positive things that we as parents have to offer our children.
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The last thing I remembered was...

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When I was a child my father told me about one of his patients who came round from a long period of unconsciousness following an accident and immediately asked to be told where he was.
. . . “The last thing I remember was cleaning my teeth this morning”, he said when he was told that he had been unconscious since having been involved in a road traffic accident on the way to work, over a week earlier.
. . . As a child it intrigued me to think that every day, every thought or action of that moment might be the last I remembered, or even worse that the last thing I was going to be able to remember was actually already in my past and all of the present and even the thought I was having right then, might be wiped from my memory as if it had never happened, by some random accidental event, as yet unknown, in my future. Over the years, this thought has continued to revisit me on occasion, but I am especially prone to it when I clean my teeth in the morning (for obvious reasons). It still strikes me as odd, that I might blink and open my eyes and suddenly find that instead of looking into a mirror, I am staring up at a hospital ceiling, with no knowledge of what has transpired in the intermission.
. . . Each time I think this, I resolve to do or think something that if it were to be “the last thing I remembered” it would at least be worthy of that title. In a small way this reoccurring thought has done me a great service over the years. At crucial times it has made me run a sanity check on what I am doing and given me a respect for the things and people that are important to me and my life; and when I needed it most it has helped me rediscover and celebrate the beauty of the moment and put my mental house in order so that I can fully enjoy the day ahead.
. . . Everyone has their own way of recognising the importance of the moment, but here are my top ten tips, conveniently sorted in to Mind, Body and Soul.

    Body
    Being aware of body and the environment that surrounds you can help to bring you great peace. Psychologists and Buddhists call it “mindfulness”, the latter believing it to be an essential factor in the path to enlightenment and liberation.

  1. Look at something properly for a minute and see the beauty in it.
    The World's a beautiful place, but it’s easy to forget, so take a minute to look at it and appreciate it; the sky, a drinking glass with sunlight reflecting into it, a blade of grass, or almost anything in fact, and see the beauty in it.


  2. Drink some ice cold water (preferably carbonated if you have it) and experience the sensation of the water
    Focus on the sensation of the cold water in your mouth and going down your throat, it’s amazing how much of the incredible way our body works we take for granted... until it stops working that is.


  3. Stretch right up to your fingertips and relax
    When you stretch, feel right up to the tips of your fingers. Be proud of the space your body takes up in the world and make yourself aware of how you fit into your surroundings.


  4. Mind
    Improve your thinking by clearing away even just one of the things that is bothering you and choosing to do something indulgent for yourself.

  5. Check your diary to make sure that you are up to date sending birthday cards / wishes
    Spread a little happiness. If you don’t have time to buy a card, send a text, if you’re too late to send a card, send flowers, they can be sent via the web, on the same day. With happiness, whatever you give out always comes back to you and makes you happier. Don’t forget how important your family and friends are, but also how they need to know that you care about them too.


  6. Think about and choose a book or film to start reading / watch that week
    Treat yourself. Look up something that you’ve always wanted to watch or read and order it online, there’s no better time than now. How cool would it be to be able to say,
    . . . “the last thing I remember was ordering War and Peace, as I was thinking how much I’d always wanted to read it.”
    . . . Now who wouldn’t be impressed by that?


  7. Pay a bill or sort out one piece of paperwork that’s been waiting to be done
    Trivial things that we have on our to-do list or at the back of our minds can really pile up, creating anxiety and get in the way of our enjoyment of life. Write a quick list of the bills that need paying or the letters that need writing and then pick one or two. You don’t have to set yourself the target of doing them all. It might be that you need envelopes and stamps before you can even get started, if this is the case, then make getting the supplies one of the list items. Checking even one or two things off the list will make you feel great for the rest of the day.


  8. Soul
    Do things that directly connect your friends and family. Don’t leave it too long so that you feel you have to do the “Big Gesture”, just keep in touch, show them that you are thinking of them and that their love and attention make a difference to you. These three points don’t need any explaining, but you may need reminding from time to time.

  9. Phone your dad and fix up to go out with him or pop round and see him


  10. Phone your kids just to say hi


  11. Email an old friend who you haven’t spoken to for ages


  12. Body, Mind and Soul
    Music has the ability to connect the mind body and soul and there are some pieces of music that not only do that but can lift you on to a higher plane. En attendant Cousteau is just such a piece.

  13. Listen to the music track “Waiting for Cousteau” by Jean Michel Jarre
    En attendant Cousteau, as it is called in the original French, is not so much music and beautiful ambient sounds embellished with musical droplets, and as such you can get a great deal out of listening to it whatever your taste in music. It’s not a short track, so you will need time, more than 45 minutes of time that is, to listen to it in peace. But do so in a comfortable chair, with no distractions, and I guarantee you will come away refreshed and relaxed like never before.


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WEEK 43, 2008
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